Having It All vs Doing It All

My entire life, I’ve believed you can have it all.

But a couple of days ago, someone said something absolutely brilliant that changed my whole perspective.

She said “Yes – but you don’t have to DO it all.”

It was one of those struck-by-lightning, world-stops-spinning, a-ha moments for me. 

It makes so much sense.

You can have everything you want.

You just don’t have to make it happen all by yourself.

Ask for help. Outsource. Or just don’t do it.

Maybe we could rebrand the popular #allthethings to #someofthethings?

How would your life change if you let go of the idea that to Have It All, you have to Do It All?